Open Question
Can someone have an "inability" to form relationships?
can someone have an actual impairment or disorder when it comes to forming and maintaining relationships? i have been at my current job for 4 years now. and i have met lots of faces. i talk, and socialize and i certainly dont mind most of the people i work with. but that is where it ends. i have trouble calling these people "friends" (unless im using the term loosely). i dont feel very close to anyone...or able to relate to anyone very well. and after four years of seeing these people i find it kind of odd that i am still not completely comfortable around them.
is this common?? because my guess is it will be the same if i leave and go somewhere else (which i am plannign on doing). im n ot sure how to fix this. and i feel like somethign is wrong with me...because no one else has this problem. i can see it for myself. im not sure what to do.
Asked by mysteriously time:2010-10-15 02:54:48
answers (3)
You could just have an inflamed pelvis muscle. either way you should just relax a while with the rough sex but when you go for it again make sure you are well lubricated. I think you are just over working your vaginal muscles and any muscle that is over worked will become sore. you need to take a break, rest your vaginal muscles and be careful not to damage yourselves.
answer: Ana time: 2010-10-30 23:54:48I would recommend that you see your gynecologist. Everything should be fine but it would never hurt to have a professional check everything out.
answer: Mike time: 2010-10-28 18:55:20It's normal, you have to remember that that area is still very sensitive, and has a pretty delicate form, if you play too rough a few times in a row you will end up with swollen vaginal walls. You just need to give it a rest or be mellow with it. Use lots of lubrication to make sure things are easier.
answer: [://apple<3] time: 2010-10-22 08:55:06